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Thursday, March 24, 2011

Saying"thank you" is an overlooked pratice by society.Do you agree?

  
         Two simple words that can shape a life but they are the hardest to say in the English vocabulary:They are often overlooked and taken for granted.What are the two words?They are "thank you".
    
    Common courtesy starts from young.It begins from the home,so parents plays a very important role in instilling habit of saying"thank you" in their children.Parents need to teach their children to appreciate what they have and the people around them.Children model their parents' behaviour ,so parents should make saying "thank you"a norm in the household.For an instance,the husband should say thank you to his wife for cooking dinner or the wife could say thank you when the husband helps her with the household chores.Or both parents could show their appreciation to their children by acknowledging their successes and their efforts to try their best.

    Parents could also train their children to write thank you notes,especially to their teachers.This pratice goes beyond good manners.It teaches them to appreciate other people's kindness,patience and generosity towards them.

     On the spiritual side,there should also be appreciation towards nature and the life the universe has given us.Many of us often take our conveniences for granted and become surprised when these conveniences suddenly disappear or are destroyed.

      No one would become the lesser man by saying " thank you".It is an expression of good manners that goes a long way.It makes us less selfish.It can lift one's spirit mend broken hearts,create special bonds and make anyone feel good and validated.Showing gratitude is the basis of living in harmony.If expressing our gratitude is commonly praticed among us,then it reflects a tolerant and caring society.Would you like to live in that kind of society?Then start saying "thank you: more often.Start with your family first.Make it your lifestyle.

                  Thanks for reading!

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Cheating

   There are  many ways to cheat another person,or oneself.Cheating another person is the vocation of con-men and some "businessmen".Cheating oneself is more serious thing for one may not even be aware of doing so.

    In this modern hectic world of ours,many people indulge in cheating to get what they want.I remember two men who once came to my neighbourhood to sell "fireproof" clothes.You may laugh at the thought of such absurdities as "fireproof" clothes,but a few of my neighbours were conned into parting with their money by these smooth-talking tricksters.

    Later on they realised that they had paid artocious amounts of money for ordinary clothes.They had been cheated by sweet words and smiling faces,Well at least I hope they learned a valuable lesson.

    Yet some people seem to fall prey to these con-men all the time.Often we read about people who were cheated of vast amounts of money by strangers who had promised them bigger fortunes.The victims were gullible enough to believe that their money could be multiplied by magic stones,or magic words and incantations.Invariably these strangers disappeared along with the "life-savings"of the victims.If,in the first place,the victims had not been greedy,they would not have been cheated like that.They deserve to lose what they had willingly given to these con-artists.

     Have you ever felt that you were cheated over the things you bought?I have,many times.Once I brought a tube of popular brand toothpaste only to discover the next morning that it was a clever imitation of the original.The box in which it came in looked genuine at first glance.A closer look revealed otherwise.The taste of the toothpaste affirmed its falsity.

      There are also unscrupulous fellows who makes imitations of common over-the-counter medicine.Imagine taking a flour-pill for your headache!No wonder the headache does not go away.Nobody really knows the extent to which such activities occur.The only safe thing to do is to get your medicine from a reputable dealer.
       Inferior products,underweight goods,adulterated drinks and contaminated food are instances of cheating by dealers who do not care what happen to their customers as long as they make their profit.Such pratices cannot be stopped.Indeed it will probably increase.It is up to the authorities to keep an eye on these cheats.It is also up to us not to patronise them.We can do without the most of the things we buy needlessly.We also can make our own drinks and cook our own food instead of buying them from outside.

      Cheating others is a relatively obvious activity.Cheating yourself is less so.Sometimes you do not even realise your self-cheating.Some examples of self-cheating that you may recognise are:telling lies to save yourself,copying a friend's homework,raiding the refrigerator while you are on diet,saying YES when you mean NO,saying NO while you mean YES,conveniently forgetting s promise made to someone,keeping a borrowed object and studying only please to your parents.

       Some people indulge in cheating most of the time.Others cheat sometimes.I do not know of anyone is totally honest,either to others or to himself.The only living beings that I know of that do not cheat are the rest of the plant and animal kingdom.Yes,these so-called animals and vegetables live honest lives.A dog will growl of angry or wag its tail if happy.It does not ,actually it cannot,pretend.It is totally honest.Similarly trees grow and flowers bloom regardless where they are.They do not grow exceptionally well in a pious man's garden and refuse to grow in crook's garden.Scheming and cheating are exclusively human activities.

       It is not ironic that we,being more intelligent,must cheat in order to get what we want,while the less intelligent animals live honestly and in the process often get bullied by us?

Monday, March 14, 2011

爬山记-13/3/2011

我们前往的就是以上的地方
话说回来,我是跟超级老师去的
而放弃了学校去马六甲的团
我选择跟老师们去爬山是因为一张文凭
很傻吧?
或许你认为我很傻,可是我不这么觉得
就因为这一张,以后进university 或college 就容易多了
当天早上,我们4.30前就在补习中心集合
很辛苦,因为得早早起来
点名后,搞搞气氛
就到了5点,是时候出发了
说到上车时,有点气啦
她们都是一对一对的
只有我一个人 = =
我就选择坐在她们后面
过后,有个不认识的就坐在我旁边   -.-
不知何故,林老师调我去前面
还是第一排
超没有安全感的
没关系啦,都是睡觉而已
当然,点好人数后
就出发了,也=睡觉的时间到了 xD
大概三小时后,我们就到了永平休息站
到了那里,第一个要去的地方当然是厕所啦 xP
然后,就吃东西咯
我们几个没有吃
上巴士才吃
全部人上完巴士,就开始high 了
补充:我坐的那辆巴士是跟老师们的,因为有两辆,一辆是学生的,另一辆就是我们那辆
巴士前往目的地的当儿,她们来个Nobody
Oh My God,我最不擅长跳舞,而且也不会跳,唯有坐着看她们跳
过后,就来一首“陈慧琳的花花世界”
她们只会跳而不会唱,也没关系的 
跳的也蛮精彩的
还有一支组合名为“卫小宝”
真可爱! =)
废话不多说
玩玩跳跳的过程中
时间很快就过去了
此时,我们也抵达了目的地 
由于我们是最TOP的补习中心
所以,老师们的头上得绑上红布
很好笑!
待续...